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Date: 20-Jan-08 @ 09:35 PM -
RE: admin - question about new site
Aye, that's the gist. Friendship is two-way otherwise you're just a nuisance.
It seems to be a badge thing mainly. The list of MySpace top-friends is useful for getting an idea about someone and finding interesting new things (music & blogs mainly).
On the whole though, it's a bit of an arse. I've noticed that when leaving comments on pages of people who've requested to be friends, there is often a list of comments all dated the same day. Many of those commenting can be found on someone else's page, so it seems like folk ask everyone who comments on someone else's page to become their 'friends'. Also, I'd quite like to know when someone like Saad Chishty releases a new track [very powerful vocals, really champion stuff], but I'm not that bothered if the snotty-nosed 'teeny-rapper' I clicked the 'accept' button to releases anything else or not: he may have liked my stuff, but that doesn't mean I have to like his.
I suppose there's a lingering notion that having thousands of friends means you're popular. If a % of those have actually listened to your music, it's a free way of advertising I suppose. It's a bit like spam in a way. I must be popular 'cos I get hundreds of emails a day! [on which point, has anyone noticed that spam has drastically reduced recently?]
Also, I don't see why I should like someone just because I like their music. Joy Division were exceptional musically, but I'm not sure I'd have enjoyed their company at home. Perhaps, rather than friends, we could have 'Music I Rate' or some such.
Maybe, instead of (or in addition to) the Mcburger-style ranking currently in use, we could have a usefulness mark/rank/value -- something where folks who ask questions can vote on the accuracy and value of any replies. Mustard vs BS sort of thing.
However, I'm not an avid user of social network sites. I had a go at Facebook but didn't really get into it. I like MySpace because I'm in touch with some interesting and likeable folk through it, not for any particular feature. That said, two (yes, twice as many as one) people on MySpace have asked if they could buy one of my tunes -- No-one on DT has ever asked that.
DT is more than a marketing tool though. We also get good advice on musical things here, help that would be difficult to come by without DT. MySpace et al are social networks, DT is a musical network. Don't lose the uniqueness.